You have not said how old you are and that makes a huge difference to the advantage/disadvantage equation.The older and more mature you are, the smaller the inequities in a 13-year age difference become.Are your girlfriends saying you really need an older man?Are you tired of dating guys your own age who don't have their shit together, are there one minute, gone the next? Sometimes dating someone around your age is gruelling and it just doesn't, no matter how hard you try, spell out blissful romance.
And if a guy of 31 is chasing her, I'd be suspicious of his motives, his maturity or both because he knows this (or he should). Less likely to share your interests, if those are the typical interests of your age.
But what might the real benefits of dating someone younger be?
Turns out, experts say compatibility between two people who just happen to have an age gap isn’t as unusual as we may think.
I guess it’s truly all about whatever floats your boat, but there are some benefits and downfalls to it either way.1.
Stability Seems like the most logical reason to date an older man, right?